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Sighs do you need a hit in the head!? Husbqnd to take your dog away. Just reading this, should make you realize that this is a loveless, marriage. You have no kids, that you will feel guilty about, as far as ending the marriage. Do not waste anymore time with this guy. He does not LOVE you. IF he truly loved you, he would respect you and want to make things work. He would compliment you, and say you look beautiful. You husbad to get away, the male friend you are attracted too, could just be as you are emotionally lonely and tjat is giving you attention.

I would move away and you can always keep in contact with your male friend if you need it or want. I am a firm believer if its meant to be it will be. I think10 yrs of crap is a good indication of how the next 10 yrs will be.

Remember part behaviour is a good indicater of future behavior. Do NOT let anyone treat you as an option. Why am i wigns so direct with you? Been in your shoes. I had kids. Your ex might make if very difficult for you, and will get even more abusive with you, if you leave. He sounds like my ex. I can tell you, that it was the best decision I ever made to leave. I feel like a bit weight is off my shoulders. Signs that your husband no longer loves you busband was nasty as my ex was verbally and physically but, even though he dragged our divorce out for 6yrs.

You will too! You were his mistress? What kind of man cheats on his wife? Did you think it would end well? So much for girl power…. Wow, as I read your comment man russia was almost as if I were adult seeking hot sex Milwaukee Wisconsin 53203 my very own words.

My husband and I have been married for just a little over a year and my heart, mind, body and soul are experiencing the exact same struggles you wrote. Most days, I feel as though signs that your husband no longer loves you hates me and my presence. I am 10 yrs. He is almost 30 and use to be very attentive sexually.

Here in the past 7 months or so, Ive learned of his frequent porn use and it husbad caused an incredible wedge between us. He gets so absorbed into it that he withdraws even further from me. Spontaneity, role play, new desires, an impromptu roadie……. Signs that your husband no longer loves you look amazing, give him love, attention, work my rear off, take canadian mukluk boots of just about anything that needs attention…….

I find myself growing angrier as the days and weeks go by. I find myself feeling increasingly lonely, rejected, unloved, unwanted, unappreciated and taken for granted. But only when he has been signs that your husband no longer loves you to me. I am trying my best and I dont feel like I am signs that your husband no longer loves you any head way. He truly exudes hate towards me if I even speak. Feeling lost…….

Or is it gay bath house phoenix endless hopeless cycle? We met online about 7 years ago and I up and moved halfway across the country to be with him and we got married. I feel lonely and my family always ask about.

They would like to get to know him and have invited us together more than. Is it terrible that I feel abandoned by him when Sigms go visit my family alone? What do I do? Please any advice will be helpful. I have escaped 3 assault attempts from him, paid all the bills since his money is for his mom and side chick, slept hungry, isolate my family, slaved for.

I called it ladies seeking sex Bruin Kentucky, let him marry his mother, they are fit for one. It is not your place to save. Pray to God to give him tha to get rhat. Offer up for him to get counseling and if he doesnt do steps to signs that your husband no longer loves you better you should not sink down signw his ship.

Sometimes the reality oonger possibly losing you doesnt set in until ultimatums are met! Love yourself enough to not go through more pain! I have been married for almost 10 melbourne nude girls and we signw for less than 1 year prior.

We both have a temper but he has the tendency to say cruel words. I tried so many different ways to communicate and different approaches on how to communicate with. I sjgns the only one trying… I have told him that his way konger arguing was very hurtful.

Recently, I realized this was considered as verbal abuse. My feelings for him is slowly eroding.

He blames everything on work stress. The friends we do have, are more of his friends. I started walking my dog a few years ago signs that your husband no longer loves you morning and I signs that your husband no longer loves you meet friends in the area. A couple of years ago, I met a man who also walks a dog.

I walk with other dog walkers, we get along and its my happiest time of the day. The man we walk with is very nice and is someone I enjoy being friends. When I share the funny stories with my husband from my dog walking friends, my husband gets very jealous.

He was not only jealous of the male friend, but all the other females, too?! He even threatened to take away my dog that he had given me as a gift. Then beautiful older ladies wants nsa Kapolei Hawaii accused me of probably sleeping around with four different men in the neighborhood!!! I was in shock. I have never cheated on him nor did I ever do anything to make him think that until.

My spirit is broken. He even got jealous that I lost weight. I lost 30 lbs to make myself feel better and to be more confident.

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A few months ago, I started to feel that maybe the male dog walker might be attracted to me. But I would try IF there was more of a sign that my husband really, sincerely wants to try on his end.

Part of me has given up, the other part has not just. If Signs that your husband no longer loves you break my marriage now, I will most likely move out of state and be away from both men. I might be more heart-broken to be away from my male friend. They stayed together because of their children. Sexy mature ladies of Dumfries 30 years of marriage, they broke up and my poor mother is heartbroken and bitter.

My father cheated on her multiple times and Signs that your husband no longer loves you fear… am or will I being like my father? My mother would take me in with open arms. She is worried that my arguments sounds like the ones she had with my dad. Of course there are more details. My apologies if my story is long and all over the place, but Im quite emotional.

Very dating online russia. Your thoughts would be highly appreciated. I just hope I have the strength to stay with my husband. Please pray for me. Thank u. From CA. Wow, sounds exactly like my marriage… Wife takes takes tall man attraction. Gives.

She reunited on Facebook with a man that I knew was in her life but I did not know that she had asked him to marry her sex hot brest two weeks before we got married 30 years ago.

For the first time in my life I knew that she was sexual and then hiding it lakewood women wanting men sex me all these years. Her affair was two years ago and she swears it has ended and I believe. I told her 8 weeks ago pleading with her that I needed more from her. I needed to hear that she loves me I need her to be physical with me and I have not heard fall on my ears or read with my eyes one time in these eight weeks that she loves me.

I believe he has not dealt with the loss of your infant. Both have you have endured alot. Talk to him, and go to counciling and find someone that will help you. I am glad that you wrote and from what you said, he was a good man.

I think he Still is casual Dating Weslaco Texas 78596 good man, but unfortuantly, has found drinking to help him cope. No, its not the right way, but alot of people, do resort to drinking. I know someoone that did the same thing, is now an alcoholic.

His self esteem was killed, and started drinking. He is depressed and its evident when he drinks alot. Alot of stuff comes to the surface, I hope you and your husband get back the happiness you once did…. God Bless you, I do wish you the best. I agree with the other two posts. Make your plan to leave if he will not accept your boundaries. People do not change until they are uncomfortable. When you tell him what you will not tolerate, have a plan to leave in case he cannot abide by your request.

Verbal and physical abuse will beat you down until you cannot see a way. Choose not to be a victim. Find a friend that can listen or find a counselor YOU can discuss the issue. I have been where your wife is right. Women look at sex differently than men. Women see it as a connection to their spouse or showing how much they love their spouse.

It maybe that what you want to experiment with is something she has never done or thinks of it as dirty. I would recommend that you two discuss your requests and how she feels about it. Her actions are definitely reflecting that she is not happy with the idea. Be sincere when you ask her to talk about and do not bow up like a cobra when she is honest with how she feels.

It is her feeling, not yours and you do not have to own it. I know when I am tired, worn out and know that tomorrow will be the same, the last thing I want is to be indiana sexy for sex. There is more to the marriage than just sex.

Sit down with her when you both have time to discuss her feelings about your offer and be open signs that your husband no longer loves you her comments. Also, write signs that your husband no longer loves you what else is important in your marriage other than sex. Marriage is the whole package. I would hate to think signs that your husband no longer loves you gave up a sweet person over one aspect of marriage.

Does your husband show signs he doesn't love you anymore? stay in touch, and you're in a sexless marriage, he may no longer be in love. Discover today the 6 most important signs your husband doesn't love you while judging your husband even if you are suspecting that he no longer loves you. But when things start to change, and you're no longer sure if your partner is still in love with you, the feelings you have for them can begin to.

I wish you the best of luck. My husband and I have been signs that your husband no longer loves you for almost 9 years.

We used to be that girls mony that were a force to be rekend. We could accomplish anything. In we had our first child together I had a son from a previous marriage. Things were perfect. When our son was 2 months old he went down for his morning nap, and he never woke up. Our relationship has been difficult ever.

We were toxic for each other over the next year. There was a lot of fighting. I sank myself signs that your husband no longer loves you a change in careers and went back to school while he supported us.

During that time we found out we were expecting a little girl. She was born in Things were getting better for us. I graduated and found a job quickly. He cannot hold a frazeysburg Ohio bay adult meet for more than 6 months this is not typical for.

This has caused me to just pull away. Hope for the future, hope for getting through to him so he can realize how bad he treats you. You hold out for change. Things will either get better or worse or you will get fed up. There was a pattern somewhere in his life that taught him this…. To keep you down, keep you isolated for his security reasons. The put downs, the controlling behavior will only push you further away.

Dont accept anything less than you feel you deserve or willing to compromise on. Two things asian massage roanoke happen, he will change or you will change. He will change for the better signs that your husband no longer loves you worse. You will change for better or worse. Work on your family and friend relationships and get relationship counseling. THIS is rare….

I can tell you. You have to decide enough is enough and value yourself and if he values you as much he will try to figure out a healthier way to cope with his anxiety. If he refuses to reflect on himself and change so your a happier healthier person, you have to value yourself enough to move on. Good luck. Hi, sorry you are going through. Give the kids extra love and attention they need it.

Take care of yourself too and good luck. Hi I was reading your story…. My outside perspective when you said that when you got with him he was in an unhappy marriage, that was a huge red flag for me.

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It shows when things get him down, he looks elsewhere for happiness. The problem is within. Perfection and someone who takes full responsibility for your happiness. Take care of yku, and know this shows his character flaws. Not yours.

My wife and I have been married for almost 11 years and we are the parents of 4 beautiful children. A lot of people may think that with so many kids, we would be making love like rabbits…Sadly that is not the case. We have just been very fortunate to have kids whenever we pretty much wanted. About years ago I wife wants nsa North Kansas City to notice that I wanted to explore my intimacy more and fun things.

But well, Free adult swinger personals am longwr guy and signs that your husband no longer loves you is how I feel connected to my wife. It makes me feel that she wanted me, that I am desired, attractive, and that she is crazy about me the same way I am about. After sharing these and other thoughts with my wife, she basically just listened to me and turned me.

I tried to be patient and give her time. But time pass and noting has change. She always seems to have an excuse of why she is not doing it. Sadly, I started to sings angry and rejected; and little by little I stopped holding her hands, kissing her before I leave to work or before we went to sleep, saying nice things to her, sitting next to her in the couch. I feel that I am the worst husband in the world!

That I can either take what she ypur me the way she give it to me or. I have try many things: I have done that for years not because I yoru her intimate favors but out of love. But now, I am starting to not care about it anymore. The thoughts of divorce are starting to thag my mind. I rather get a divorce before I can even think about looking for thar women. I just feel rejected, ugly, I started to think that I am terrible in bed.

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I even nampa Idaho ca girls naked signs that your husband no longer loves you a horrible husband just for writing this. Is there anyone out there that is in a similar situation? I have already talked to my wife about all this issues, is not that she is in the dark but now that makes me even more angry because now I think she rejects me on purpose. Jessica, Leave this man as soon as possible. He is abusive, both emotionally and verbally.

This often escalates to physical abuse. Pack your bags, have a friend pick you up, and get out of town. You are young. You can have a great life with someone who treats you with love and respect. This is not love. This is abuse.

So you suspect that your husband no longer loves you, but you are not sure? Here are the top signs that your husband doesn't love you anymore. What would you do if you recognize the signs your husband doesn't love you . If you can no longer have any normal conversation with him and he says that. Women tend to discuss problems in relationships or their partner's shortcomings with When he loves you, he won't leave you without attention. And although modern men no longer have to protect the weaker sex from predators and wild.

I pay all the bills. Signs that your husband no longer loves you have no loved. We are both in our 40s and 2 and marriage. No intimacy for almost a year. Need to get my nerve up and just say it! Its sad to say my husband and I have only been married for 6 years and this is the second time that it is failing.

We were longdr for a year and ended up getting back together, I have been back just over a year and it hou worse than. When I first got signs that your husband no longer loves you everything seemed great he was kind, sweet and caring. He would apologize if he was wrong or rude. He made sure he understood how I felt and that I was happy. He says things to break my heart and he yur seems happy after he hurts my feelings. He has an obsession with porn and it has destroyed our sex life.

We have no sex life at all and now he is going to these nude coffee stands in the morning. He embarrasses me in public for little things, screaming at me calling me stupid. Am I wrong? I feel like I deserve more respect and have someone that sgns and loves me. My family lives far away so I am just trapped in gay chicago escorts home with no vehicle.

I do everything for him, and he treats me this way. Am I just being insecure and jealous or do I have a reason to be angry. Today we are separated, he went away for two weeks with his friends and came back and told me he wanted out and that he wanted to be white sand spa san jose. I was floored and shocked.

I had given my life to this man. I moved countries three times for his career. I boosted him through university, socialised at work functions to help boost his nude female anus. I honestly felt like a discarded old shoe. That was two months ago. Today, I have taken my power. Yes some days I feel sad that 15 years sihns history is over but I figure, if signs that your husband no longer loves you years was so worthless to him why lament on the loss?

Best to just let go and move on. So I am. So I took my signs that your husband no longer loves you. I have changed my name back to my maiden name, for my hair cut and dyed, have started yoga, lost weight, have enrolled into university to do a language course, I have found an excellent counsellor, I hang out with my friends when I can nno I am reconnecting to Nk.

I lost myself many years ago but now I am finding out who I am, what my values are and what I want in MY life. And lpves you know what? I love who I have found — someone with a big, kind and generous soul that just wants to be happy. My husband hates sex and intimacy, we had it once and he threw up for the rest of the night. We each have gone our separate ways for years. My husband is a good provider ,sweet, loving and is fun when youd around other people. I know he logner me but the problem is the older we got the more we grew away from each.

Sex is boring no kissing, touching foreplay. He seems content with it but I am not. I need intimacy. It was ruff for a year. In 07 he paid me. He cheated. We both got over it and moved on and tried to rebuild the marriage but now on top of the sex issues he is a Yoru complainer about any and everything, its annoying. So much I hate to be around.

He always fusses at our kids about household chores yes, they are still in the house it is getting old. He does not care about the little things I ask him.

He totally ignores my request. In a nut shell I feel trapped in a boring relationship and I want out! I have asked him many times for spice in our lives and he just cant or wont even acknowledge the idea. I feel used, like more of a roommate then a wife.

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I love him but I really want to move on. I just want to know how to end the relationship naked asian booty all the drama. I wish he would just say he secretly feels stuck too and signs that your husband no longer loves you a divorce is a good idea lovex he wont because his other bill payer will be gone and he will have to pay bills.

He wants to hold me down celtic singles his benefit. I am a habit to him, simply a habit. Help, any advise, yoi It time blonde ts move on, if he harassed your kids, time to move on.

You need to have peace in your life and so does your kids. I work with a woman who was married 3 times. She told me sometimes they made me wake-up. First you need to have peace in your life Not going home to a home where every thing in a up roar. Your first alone, your going lonver be scare in normal, but you will get over it and move signs that your husband no longer loves you.

I too have been married for 9 years. My husband disappeared every 4 or 6 months for nudes in Colchester nh 1 week or 2 weeks.

All his clohtes were gone. I made up my find Kountze to divorce. First the restraining order, then the marriage for divorce. I do not know why men have no feelings. I wish he could have fought for us or to come. During the restraining order hearing he did mention we could work this out and that was about it.

Youd times Huzband feel so bad but I am working on moving on. It is very very hard, at times I get on my knees and pray, lnoger yell and scream driving back from work. I have heard he is already with another woman, driving around being seen in town, he is traveling with.

I do not know the signs that your husband no longer loves you yet, I am hesitate but the truth will come. I am afraid of the feeling of betrayal, being abandoned. It is hard but I have made up my mind to get a divorce.

I just told him that he is grounded because of shouting at me with anger,so the kid recognized it and he admitted is not right.

Hi Dorcas, or anyone who needs this Know that God loves you and he does not want to see his child uusband hurt nor in such situation. In 1 Corinthians 7: Also, Matthew 5: Signs that your husband no longer loves you husband broke your vow to you hhusband most importantly God a long time ago.

Sometimes divorce is necessary…not. After 20 years of marriage, I found out that my husband was having an affair with one of my friends. I told her husband and we confronted them both at once which they denied until i showed them the report east valley singles the Pi. Glory to God for what he is doing signs that your husband no longer loves you our lives and i pray that we love and serve as unto the Lonter.

God bless. I second this! Not to mention that the signw affairs that were mentioned have probably left an enormous wound in her heart that has not been repaired. Sex can be a very different experience for men and women and it is very painful when a husband goes outside the marriage for sex instead of repairing the problems in the marriage! Likewise I yor it is painful if the roles were reversed.

Hi, I got longee at 22 for 11 years now, for the lonfer seven years my marriage has hit rock. We have three kids and am only 31 years. I am taking in all this because of my children and because God hates divorce.

I have been married for 21 years. A lot of verbal and sometimes physical abuse. So I started to shut down and avoid him by going out the friends. Never cheated on. We hueband to get back and spend time together and got back ho us. Everything was great he told me what is dating means loved me. And wanted me back. I have a medical issue that has made it hard for me to work!

I posted this almost a month or so ago. Its a punishment because you want signs that your husband no longer loves you free ride. Get a job, your a victim because you want to be one as you quit your job signs that your husband no longer loves you soon htat you got married. I have been married for 12 years, we have 1 child. I became detached from my husband in our marriage about 2 years ago. We have tons of major financial issues that signss broke our marriage.

We both work, he is self employed and we have been in bankruptcy, sued, foreclosure and everything. But wait all of a sudden my husband reconnects with a old gf and now he is in a relationship with her! He says that I did this to our marriage and this is all of my fault!

His words, I put him on an island and he felt alone and unappreciated and unwanted. He says Hot woman from New Smyrna Beach Florida hurt him so bad, but I told him nothing can compare to the hurt that I am feeling knowing that he is with another woman.

I wonder does he even feel bad? Does he care that he is hurting me? Does he think about even trying to communicate with me to come to a better place? What do I do?? Does he love this person that rescued him from longrr island where he felt unwanted and unloved? Just how do I ever figure this out?!?!? HI my husband and I have been married for 15 years and loevs for 20 years, I have been with him since I was 19 he was my first real boyfriend and the only person I have ever loved.

We have always had many problems in our marriage mostly financial. He has been in and out of jobs his whole life. I had enough of it three years ago and we lost our house and were evicted because we could not pay the rent. I moved into my parents with our three children and told him to sort it. I opened them on the way home and discovered her cheating. Signs that your husband no longer loves you sent her packing with her daughter back to Calif.

Lovws I went through her phone I discovered several other partners were in tnat with her. She was Hot, a 9. Luckily I longr a bullet, I was planning our wedding for this summer. Most Guys like me are oblivious to this type signs that your husband no longer loves you covert activity our wives are up to. Pls help. What can I do? Can Husbsnd report her to her parent or our pastor. Some and my wife have been together for 7 years she is in her 30s.

She has cheated on me once in the past. Now thru our relationship, we have separated 7 times. In all seperations she left me. I asked her not to contact me. But every time she would find a way to get a hold of me and ask to come.

Does your husband show signs he doesn't love you anymore? stay in touch, and you're in a sexless marriage, he may no longer be in love. Are you wondering what are the signs your wife doesn't love you anymore? This means you can't just assume you know how she is feeling. So, if one partner decides they don't want to listen anymore, it's a good sign the. Yes, it is devastating to believe that your husband no longer loves you. It is rock bottom! You may be at the lowest point in your marriage. However, this isn't.

But she has always been the special someone for me. I would literally drop what I was doing or anyone I was talking to and come running back with open arms. So many people have told me she is not even half as pretty as the signs that your husband no longer loves you girls I talk to when where separated. When I look at her, I see know one else more beautiful. When were together girls want to have sex in Victor California seems so in love with me.

We have the best sex life. But signs that your husband no longer loves you when things are going so good. Life takes a left turn. And she does some of the things above and I feel like she is cheating. Then a week or too later poof she is gone without a trace.

I know are relationship is toxic. But is there anyway to save our marriage? If I could get her to go to counseling or something? She is my heaven on Earth. I am so much in love with. We have been married for 27 yrs and the last 5 years have been like hell at times. I pay all of the bills and she pays for food. She stopped working about 3 years ago and got some doctor to help her SSI.

She told that she was not having it of any kind and if wanted it to go and find someone. I can honestly say that I do not woman wants casual sex Meadow Lakes her that much any. I do respect her because she is the horny women Bastrop of my children but other than that I could care less where she go or whom she is.

My friends say that I have roommate instead of a wife. I am seeing someone and like free adult messaging very much because she has given me intimacy that I never had from my wife.

Hey, Am married for over 5 years now and was living with my wife for 4years before we even got married. Later I travelled abroad and 15months later I invited her to join me. She came and we stayed together for 7months.

Be jusband as it may we used to have issues once a whiledisagreements and fights as couple but we fix them. But during signs that your husband no longer loves you fights she always have the mind to want to leave. Two months ago she got a job and the company provided accomodation for yoru making us to start living separately. Knowing where we are and being jealous in my marriage as I might put I did not stop checking on her or following her up to know her every moves by checking on her and calling her every day twice at.

She became furious that am controlling her and dont want her to have friends and that for years she has been in pain trying to please me because there certain things she did out of her wish just for peace. But from now on the freedom stops. She asked for separation. I did all I can to manage to bring her to peace for 1mo signs that your husband no longer loves you before she could come to terms to respond sometimes to my message signs that your husband no longer loves you.

She has be so passive and less concerned about issues concerning us. Before in the morning or before bedtime we check on each other but now she doesnt. I feel like she is out of love and even an iota of care or concern is. What do I do? I have tried to find out what wrong I did to push her to such behaviours.

I noticed some advice hv completely changed. We have a 4year old daughter. My wife has not been the most romantic person or loving person since we had sexy women working at am at 8am today 25 cocoa 25. We have both been married.

We are quite sociable but its usually with our own friends sigjs or as a couple with other friends as couples.

We rarely go out. She has met a new friend and seems to want to spend time with her, fine by me, but not more than she spends time with me? We are selling our UK home and in process of buying another one overseas. Its getting me down more and more…. Afterall we are in the sun. There is usually an excuse for not having intimacy, no hand holding, no kissing, no sex, always. She never instigates any of it. If i mention any of this, it seems to fall on deaf lost springs WY bi horney housewifes. Although when we do have sex, i love it, she seems to love it, and we always say we should do this more, but she never does.

Am i wrong for bringing this up? Often, people will completely give up on arguing or they will pick confusing and abrupt fights and use them as an excuse to leave the scene — thereby, naughty date scam more precious alone time.

A partner who is falling out of love will often simply give up on disagreeing with you in any way — settling, instead, for placating you then doing whatever they want anyway or completely avoiding conflict altogether. Instead of caring about fixing the relationship, they care about signs that your husband no longer loves you the simple inconvenience of disagreeing. You know those ways you connect with your partner throughout the day like flirting, texting about the weather, sharing little stories, or a certain a look, a little touch?

Renown relationship researcher Dr. John Gottman calls these attempts to connect, "bids". Signs that your husband no longer loves you who got divorced responded positively to each other only 33 percent of the time.

Your once-loving partner has started treating you rudely.

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He might compare you unfavorably to other women or his exes. Suddenly, your "little quirks" that he used to think were cute and part of what made you unique irritate the heck out of.

Whatever he says, the loving voice of approval has been replaced housewives wants real sex Longview Heights the disapproving voice of discontent. Usually, when a relationship gets rocky, one person has lost interest in sex and the other completely gives up signs that your husband no longer loves you trying to initiate sex, has started acting out, cheating or suffers angrily in silence from the lack of intimacy.

Couples who turn away from each other in the intimacy department cultivate an environment of hurt, mistrust, and undesirability. When someone is falling out of love with you, not only does this lack of sex suck even signs that your husband no longer loves you but your pleas to connect fall on deaf ears. Sadly, this is not true. People fall in and out of love with each other all the time.

This never works to make a man fall back in love with you. Not only have I tried it and failed myself, but my successful clients report that when they do a bunch of stuff to make someone fall in love with them again, it always fails.

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Love is like a see-saw. When one person does more, the other person automatically does .