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I have never felt warmth, received affection, or felt loved and understood by my mother. My three younger sisters have better relationships with her and enjoy spending time together to which I am not usually invited. My mother recently admitted that she never felt a connection to me, even when Non nurturing mother was an infant. I've always felt that she intentionally created distance between my sisters and me, and she excludes me from most family communications.

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Her remark could be used as a springboard for discussion and healing between the two of you. However, as the daughter of an emotionally absent mother myself, I realize that our moms often have little to offer us and little understanding of why they acted the way they did. They can't deal with our desire for an emotional connection and get easily frustrated by our desire for one.

Your mom, though, cannot be clueless as to why she didn't bond with you.